Obedience is probably the singular most important quality a submissive/slave needs.
A Master must always have control over a submissive in order for the power exchange to take place, but without the element of obedience there would be no control.
A submissive needs the control in order to make her life complete, but needing it and obeying every command are often two very different things.
In the everyday life of a submissive, obedience can make the difference between a successful D/s relationship and a difficult one. Every request from the Dominant should be obeyed…. Every task should be completed.
It can be a very hard emotional battle to always obey, and i believe i have yet to meet a submissive/slave that is 100% obedient.
She knows in her own relationship with Daddy, she always desires to obey Him and with all her heart always believes that His way is the right way but have asked for explanation to understand clearly His reason for aspects of her training or a request she has made, but, as His slave, she must trust Him to do the best for me, and therefore if He asks her to do something, she must do it. The most difficult thing is to obey when she is torn with His final word or if she does not understand, however, the need to please Him, and to serve Him overrides the thought of disobeying. Two nights ago was one of those instances she made a request for something and He did not allow her request, she felt mad not understanding why and was saddened but of course obeyed but while trying to process His decision and obey immediately put her in a very bad place to the point of today suffering a terrible panic attack which was exactly what He was trying to prevent as He is her protector and is constantly keeping her from making bad decisions that will hurt her. Daddy she is very sorry for questioning Your decision and after suffering her attack which she feels badly about because now remembering the look of despair and worry on Your face breaks her heart, please forgive her bad choice and know that she is so incredibly grateful to serve You..putita.